What do i do?

I been seeing a wonderful new woman, we'll call her "C". I been seeing C for a few weeks and i'm extremely attracted to her in every way. I've had lots of girlfriends but I’ve only slept with two or three of them. Each time the way they had sex were different. C is much older and more experienced than I am, I would really like to please her but I’m very sexually intimidated by her. I really want to give her my "treasure" but I’m afraid that I won't please her because I don't know what to do with her in particular. My question is how do I find out what she likes and how she likes it without sounding like I’m interviewing her?

What do i do?
two girls can't have sex. it's impossible.





just eat her out.
Reply:If you're going to be in a real relationship with someone, then honesty is ALWAYS the best way to go. Explain to her exactly what you've just explained to us, and be sure to tell her how much you want to please her because you are so very attracted to her.





She should be very understanding and kind, and teach you what she likes. She wasn't always experienced either, you know, someone had to teach her at one time! So she will know exactly what you mean. Just talk to her! It will be fine, don't worry.
Reply:be honest with her and let her know that your fairly new to this ... and that she should be gentle .....lol, don't worry she will help and lead you through everything and she will let you know what she likes ....just be your self and relax and most of all ... enjoy your self !.....


p.s.. don't forget to let her know what you like as well....its a 2way street
Reply:Go slow. Let her lead you. Be sharp and listen to what she Say's. Just in general conversation about T.V shows and adult conversations. Some where there may be a hint. Then you can boldly ask her what is she saying. What you call "Treasure" may not be what she like and if you make the move. You could lose her. Just a little advice from an older woman
Reply:Good question... I had this very problem once before... I was intimidated by this girl I was seeing bcuz she was about seven years older than I was... So what I did (since it was too new to be asking those personal questions) I bought this romance board game from this specialty shop... It came with two tiny paint brushes, two jars of chocolate, feathers, playing cards and note pads... one of the challenges was for us to write down our most intimate fantasy and whoever made to the end of the game first got their fantasy played out for them... of course I lost, but the point is, make it fun... some people don't like to just come out and talk about what they like... make it a game or something else fun you could think of. It worked and it helped us become more open with each other. Try it... and GOOD LUCK!!!
Reply:dont worry about it . just let the experience unfold . Youll both have a good time .
Reply:Hide in her attic, her bathroom closet, where she works, her bedroom closet and any where else and just observe study obsess about every detail untill you know exactly how to please her but if she finds out kill her hide the body and move on
Reply:Just ask her, (maybe in a exotic type of way), so that it sounds sexy and not like an "interview." Or you can ask her to physically show you what she like in bed. Or you can be honest and just sit down and tell her exactly what you wrote to us, and see what she says.
Reply:Ask her. There is nothing better than a woman willing to talk about sex and the things that make her go omg that feels good.





Talk, talk, talk, then get it crackin'. Sex should be a open thing in a relationship. Everyone likes different things. So the only way to know is to open it up for discussion.





If she's not the type to talk then you can do things to her and if you get good reactions and sounds then you're on a roll. If not try something else until you start to learn what she likes and doesnt like.
Reply:I think people have given you some really good advice. One other thing I would add is that sex is not a job or an audition. It's wonderful to want to please your partner. Also, experience sex as YOUR enjoyment of someone else's body. Do what you find interesting and experiment with what you enjoy. For example, if you really like kissing someone's neck and smelling her hair, do that. Maybe she will dig it, maybe not, you can find out. Don't place the entire emphasis on performing, it can be a more natural experience than that.
Reply:Open, honest communication is the key to a relationship. Tell her what you've just told us. Trust me, if someone told me she wanted to know how to please me, it would be a total turn on.