How do you feel about women who...?

Women who do a lot.


Not work, not success but for a man.


Let's say you had an interview tomorrow and your date/girlfriend/etc. was helping you. She stayed up to help you practice, prepped your bags, made sure you had enough underwear, razors, and even printed directions for you. You were busy as well prepping but she did all this and more.


She's not a selfless person, but more a hardworker who doesn't mind breaking a nail and she doesn't question if she's being used b/c she knows the difference. Does this sort fo relationship make men feel less attracted to a women since she can't lead him on? Do you prefer the more bitchy style?


See, I'm theis way but I'm smart. Though at times I feel I'm doing too much and that all men just want a women they can chase.


You know, that "I'm bitchy and I'll just give you half the attention so you can want me more" type.


I would like to read honest answers.

How do you feel about women who...?
If I had a woman that did things like that, I know that it would take a great amount of pressure off from me in getting ready. Now a man should be capable of getting his things together for trips, but if he has a woman that just automatically does this for him, I think she would need to be appreciated deeply by her man. I think that a lot of men would not know how to react to a woman that shows that kind of attentiveness. that is why they maybe tend toward a woman that acts bitchy? That is what some men have seen and are most familiar with.
Reply:Hate the "I'm bitchy and I'll just give you half the attention so you can want me more" type. That makes me want less.





Seems like all the women I meet are like that... and I'll die single If I dont find one who isn't
Reply:It's good if you love a man so much, that you're willing to do anything for him. There is limits though, like putting toothpaste on his toothbrush ext.
Reply:What a wonderful person - a real Jewell.
Reply:I would be A LOT more attracted to woman like you, someone who is helpful and kind and willing to help.A woman with a bitchy attitude is a huge turnoff, someone who plays games and can't be real with me is a waste of my time.
Reply:oh my god, all men want a woman that is this way.





The more help, the better. In my bad marriage, I always felt as though i had to do everything, then give her all the attention too. You are a goddess, if you did all that stuff!
Reply:I was like this in my marriage. After he left (saying I had been the best wife he could have ever asked for), I find it hard to have the energy to give like that anymore. It didn't feel like such a burden then, but when it goes unappreciated and then to find it was all for naught... Although I am better off without him and have a very caring man who tries to take good care of me, it burned me out.